Get your relationship on the right track in time for Christmas!
by Toi Moore
In order to get your relationship on the right track in time for Christmas you need to learn how to take the other person’s feelings into consideration. I believe people should treat others the way they want to be treated, no matter who they are; your husband, mother, children, family members, or friends. If you allow someone to disrespect you, or treat you in ways that make you feel unhappy, they’ll continue doing it and you’ll continue being unhappy and upset. Speak your mind and eliminate stress, even if it means eliminating the person who’s causing it.
Granted happily ever after doesn’t always happen, even in a marriage, but life would sure be easier if it did. Sometimes we come home after having a bad day and take our pain or frustrations out on the person closest to us, which is normally our mate. Ladies, oftentimes most of our bad days are due to those PMS days. But I’ve learned to give everyone around me fair warning that it’s that “time of the month,” which avoids hurt feelings. Therefore, I get the needed space I need to allow nature take its place and allows me to have my day, or two, or three, to personally deal with my mood swings. Once you give fair warning, everyone is on their own. Ladies, try to stay to yourself during those moody periods to avoid any unnecessary blow ups you may regret.
If you feel that those mood swings have given you the permission to be a bitch, you’ve gotten it all wrong! Remember, you wouldn’t want someone to treat you like a bitch, so don’t dish out something you can’t handle in return! Remember the ole saying; “It takes one to know one!” So, don’t be one! When you feel that you can’t be nice, or treat people with kindness and respect, then be the lady I know you can be and back away, while giving yourself the necessary space to get it together. However, if your PMS symptoms last more than a few days and become uncontrollable, you need some serious help. Therefore, go see a doctor and get the help you need instead of being a bitch and giving a bad rap for other women who are just having a bad day! No one wants to put up with a bitch. Not even you!
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