What comes to mind when you think of sex and marriage? For many, the answers to this question are stale, boring, standard, and rare. Why? The main reason for both men and women seems to be rooted in the fact that you begin to take it for granted that your significant other is always there (and is not going anywhere). Many times a woman can forget that it is important to have sex with her husband often. Of course, you don’t want to turn it into a contest or a chore and take the fun out of it. However, you do not want to go weeks and weeks without. A man can forget that the mood is important. It is not enough to offer up quickies and no frills sex all the time. Also, do not forget that for a woman, the trust and intimacy between you has to be at an acceptable level in order to allow certain things to be done to and with her. How can the sexual rut be broken? There are some sweet and spicy places to go in Dallas that can apply a defibrillator to the sex life in your marriage.
Some adult clubs in Dallas advertise date nights for couples. The Lodge and Silver City offer special dinners. The Lodge has date nights every Saturday from 4-9 pm featuring dinner for two for $25 with your choice from a selection of special entrees and desserts, and free cover charge. Silver City offers a similar special with $15 steak, grilled gulf shrimp, and baked potato plate, and $4 martinis, and free cover charge on Friday nights. This can be fun for both of you. Great for women, because a few tricks and moves can be picked up during the show. It can be especially enjoyable to watch performers who are very good on the pole. This adds a certain theatrical element that can be very entertaining. Great for men, because well…you know. Great for you together, because there is nothing left around the house for the kids to get into, no viruses on your computer, it is not hardcore, and the mood is set for a great night of sex. Plus, if your husband goes from time to time with friends, you can see that there is nothing to worry about. Ladies may even want to take it a step further and go to The Girls Room for pole dancing lessons.
Get the Proper Tools for the Job
Be prepared to help enhance and extend the mood with a few items. Take a trip to Condoms to Go, Condom Sense, or New Fine Arts. Make sure you hit a lingerie store like the Electrique Boutique or Trousseau of Dallas, too. There are books with suggestions for new positions or techniques to try, lubricants, lingerie and other items that help set and keep the mood in the privacy of your own home. Do not feel pressure to purchase anything that you deem “freaky” or are uncomfortable with having in the house. This applies in the opposite way as well. Do not be afraid to try something new. You are not supposed to be worried about what other people will think, because anything you purchase will be used in private moments between the two of you.
Remember that marriage is what you make it. If you are dead set of having a boring time, that is what you will get. An effort has to be made to be open to what your partner needs and wants. Usually, if this is the case, you can be receptive in the sex department as well.