Dear Boston Zodiac Relationship Examiner,
I am a male Sagittarius in Boston dealing with an angry friend. I woke up to an angry email from a good friend of 15 years over a situation that occurred a year ago. We haven’t spoken for that time period, and we’ve recently crossed paths in which I just said hi and walked away, prompting the angry email. I think she’s also a Sagittarius. Should I ignore the email and forget the friendship or try to remedy it? If the latter, what should I do? Also, I agree with your profile of the typical Sagittarius. It’s very me.
Thank you for your comment on my past article about your apple picking species. Sagittarians are a lovely sign. Expect more information in the future. In regards to your question, I think this is one easy fix. First, I think that a great friendship of 15 years is one you shouldn’t easily let go of. If you two were close, you will be able to overcome this obstacle and probably come out stronger than before. If your friend is indeed a Sagittarian, then this might be easier to achieve than you think. To tell you more about the both of you, you two are both fire signs. This means you two are very proud and very stubborn. So expect either a bitter sharing of words or a deep outpouring of emotion. You two are also both prone to saying things that come across very negative and offensive, without actually intending that outcome. Be wary of what you say, as “foot-in-mouth” syndrome is typical for both of you.
Being that you two were able to be at the same place together and be cordial is a big deal, meaning the issue is probably not too difficult to overcome. You received an angry email from her, and now you can either respond in an angry manner or respond in an explanative way. I suspect, with your fiery nature, that you’ve already countered her email with something equally abrasive. This could actually work in your favor, because now you can begin a new email apologizing for any ill will you might have said. It’s a good segue to begin the communication about what happened a year ago too. Do this soon, as she is probably typing a counter to your counter. Don’t think that being a peacemaker is a sign of weakness, as it takes a mature person to call a truce and want to overcome negativity.
In your email, discuss the issue that occurred one year prior. Tell her why it happened and that you see the outcome of it happening. The details are obscure so please fill in the necessary parts. Try not to interject generic lines that keep her from knowing word for word exactly how you feel. It is best to keep it simple and keep it honest. End your email with what you want from your friendship. Tell her you two have too much history to let one situation affect 15 years of companionship. Tell her that you will take the necessary steps to clear the air and recommend (say this nicely) that she do the same.
Sagittarian, I sincerely hope that I have been able to answer your question and assist you on your quest for a peaceful existence with your friend. As always, thank you for following, and remember to add a sprinkle of sugar over your initial communication with your friend and karma is sure to be on your side.
Best of luck,
Zodiac Relationship Examiner