Based on Dr. Borba’s Parenting Solutions book, “Mothers and parents in general are basically worried and stressed that their children are not turning out the way they plan”. This article and all future writings will provide continuous information of solutions of parenting topics and online education from research provided by qualified doctors and spiritual leaders. These researched essays and articles intentions are to manifest and bring forth within you insights and wisdom to solve the ongoing current issues as well as preventive measures for our children and families of today.
In addition, having self-confidence, courage, understanding, patience, qualities and skills of this type are necessary to execute into any areas of our life. Since, we will pin point and focus like a laser beam in the dynamics of parenting, the author’s essays and articles will support this dynamics.
Please enjoy reading the following real life event which occurred in this year’s 2010 new schools first quarter.
The Hawaii State Assessment testing season is upon students again even for online schooling students, but for 10 years old, “Happy go lucky” comical girl Jessica, the 2010 test will be retaken due to her uncontrollable influence by YouTube’s characters.
To make problems worse, the ordeal of seeing your daughter bullied from local girls in the neighborhood because of having over confidence from mimicking attitudes from characters watching videos late nights while parent’s sleep. This is an online student’s advantage, having lots of time on hand in which requires discipline and responsibility to control. However, this event led father – a minister, to intervene and work with her charter online school and teachers to prepare Jessica for her H.S.A. test while to help her settle down.
Two lessons came from this event in which my wife and I consulted our daughter with deep compassion. The friends she apparently hanged with during the summer turned out to be bad friends in which led them to be bullies allowing them to feel happy whenever picking on her.
In addition, research has proven a fact that was carried out by Alfred Adler who studied the effects of birth order on siblings. This Psychologist, mentioned in Dr. Borba’s book says that, “The birth orders in which children are in families have a significant influence on their life choices, personalities and intelligence”. Since, Jessica is the youngest it is an interesting fact that she has a lot of pros compared to cons such as being fun, comical and entertaining, and a bit healthier than her elders.
One of the solutions that derived from the wisdom gained from her father was that she needed guidance, direction, and most of all love and attention to feel a sense of positive fulfilled mission towards a high quality development engaging passionately in her online education first while playing and having fun second.
The formulated process in which engaged in this turn of events and change in attitude allowing Jessica to do the programs her teacher’s recommend while not having the intervention affect her self-esteem and confidence was first by applying the nature of prayer.
Acknowledging, inner or higher power within and from without self with deep appreciation and gratitude for Jessica to realize how valuable her education is for her future and that being a good student and person is to study consistently seriously while knowing when to act funny had already been answered.
Many faithful believers have found that writing out your prayers in the form as if it has already been achieved or done is by far the quickest method most philosophies and religions may agree upon to have your prayers answered.
Secondly, asking for wisdom, knowledge and patience to speak whole heartedly is a major factor in bringing about her change. This change consisted of her correct attitude going to class for tutoring while doing her homework online at home every day. She hugs and kisses both mom and dad when dropped off at class and enjoys being there. Her teachers have notified her parents that she is making friends and participates more in class.
Although, program remains throughout the school year, Jessica from birth is a compassionate, loving, helpful individual with a strong character. However, she unlike her two brothers expects to be rewarded, which parents remain to provide her with her makeup supply since she will be a makeup artist.