Honesty is always the best policy, right? Great. It’s time for women to dive head first into the rough waters of their relationships, and face a sea of advice called: ” brutal honesty “. If you’re not ready to tackle these temper mental waves, it is best to turn and run. Specifically, sprint all the way back to swim lessons for beginners. Most likely, these classes will consist primarily of toddlers. Meaning, the issue of dating will entirely cease to concern you. If it doesn’t, you’ve found yourself an entire other group of complex problems (…here, complex has an alternate spelling of ” i-l-l-e-g-a-l”…and this column %100 guarantees not to help). :-)
First and foremost, it is essential to start from the basics. If you are advice is what you are seeking, it’s safe to assume that you most likely have a problem. Regardless of size, whether microscopic or life threatening, it is crucial not to deny the face that there is a problem. All details put aside, it exists, and will continue to do so until it is acknowledged.
The question is: What are YOUR leading complaints, and/or problems, surrounding YOUR relationships? It would be a waste of time to not be honest with each other, and most importantly ourselves. If we as women choose to accept the truth -and that it sometimes hurts- , then we will find ourselves well on our way to an amazing break through. This page is solely intended, and entirely devoted, to making a difference in the relationships of women. Speak up. Your opinion is wanted. So help others, to help you. :-)
Below are the women’s top ten complaints about men, taken from a shockingly extensive list of 50 . Check back to follow as we begin to dissect that list, one single problem at a time. And remember… your personal input and opinions are very much welcomed, appreciated, and encouraged at all times.
- All he ever wants is sex.
- He doesn’t help with household chores.
- He doesn’t call me throughout the day to just to say “hi”.
- He is not honest with me.
- I can not get him to open up about his feelings.
- He doesn’t buy me flowers.
- He doesn’t want sex often enough ( as opposed to the men of # 1)
- He looks at other pretty women when we go out.
- He flirts with other women.
- He doesn’t say “I love you.”
…Wow. Just reading between the lines of this short list… it seems as if women crave and create problems that could potentially be avoided all together. But, that opens the door to a whole other concept in itself, that we will place neatly on the back burner for proper examination at an appropriate time.
1. Doc Steve (2010). “Women’s Top 50 Complaints About Men”. http://www.bukisa.com/articles/342580_womens-top-50-complaints-about-men
…until next time …the best of wishes…. -SW.