Whether your goal is to seduce multiple hot women or attract that one special woman for a relationship, you can this New Year with the secret code of attraction. It can indeed be a little boring and lonely being single in DC during the holidays, but opportunities abound for those who know what they want, where to go to find it, and how to apply the secret code of attraction to get what they want.
So before we break the code, and before you apply the code, you first have to determine your goal in attracting women. Are you looking for fun and excitement, a casual girlfriend, or marriage? Your answer to this question will determine the places you have to concentrate your application of the code. By intuition, you know what types of women you are most likely to find in the DC bars and night clubs, gyms, self-improvement seminars and conferences, and churches.
Having a purpose in attracting women will thus help you to attract a woman who meets your present needs so that you can avoid a disaster.
Now, what is the secret code for attracting hot women?
Women are attracted to confident men. If you are a guy who constantly exudes a sense of confidence and personal authority, you probably already know how irresistible you are to women. A confident man leads his interactions with women, and always knows he is in charge. He knows how to make a woman feel comfortable in his presence while retaining a sense of command and leadership. A confident man doesn’t just go with the crowd, but instead makes his own decisions and takes responsibility for the outcomes. Women want to do what he wants them to do because of his strong personal authority, and he is not ashamed of his desire for women.
Once you start seeing yourself as handsome, attractive, funny, warm and gracious, you will get comfortable around women; and the more comfortable and confident you are, the more attractive you will come across to women.
2. Dynamism and good sense of humor
Ask any woman in DC, and they will tell you that women can’t resist a funny and dynamic man who captivates the crowd in a social setting. One way of acquiring or exhibiting this quality is to develop a “silly” side to your personality. “Silly” behavior turns women on. Learn how to tell hilarious stories and jokes, and make unpredictable and funny comments. However, know that having a “silly” side is not the same as being just silly. Women like men of substance, not clowns, so don’t turn yourself into a clown. This means that you should learn to alternate between “silly” behavior and serious behavior.
If you can make a woman laugh and feel at ease in your presence while remaining firmly in charge, you will surely be attractive to her.
Dynamism also means having multiple personalities that enable you to respond appropriately to different situations or circumstances. This creates mystery, which is another important code of attraction.
3. Mystery and Challenge
We all know why Dan Brown’s “The Da Vinci Code” was such a big success: it was attractive to many because it had the all-important quality of mystery.
Mystery is not only attractive in movies and novels. It is an important code for attracting women. A man of mystery is unpredictable in a good way. He exudes an air that makes women wonder what he is up to, or what he’s going to do next. A man of mystery uses vague language in communicating his interest to women. He comes across as cool and challenging to women, and women love challenges.
If you want to exhibit this attribute, you need to develop a “leave it or take it” attitude that communicates to women that you don’t need to attract them. This means acting in a cool way without a deliberate attempt to attract women. You don’t want to present the image of a desperate “woman hunter”. That will certainly get you nowhere. Women can sense when a man is desperate, and that is a turn-off. Being nonchalant and sometimes ignoring really hot women even when every other guy is giving her all their attention, is oftentimes what gets you noticed as different and challenging. And as noted earlier, women like challenges, and will be attracted to you just when you show them you don’t care much about their beauty.
Another important code for attracting women is authenticity. Women find authentic men very attractive mostly because they meet so many men every day who are the direct opposite of that. It is easier to describe an authentic man by what he doesn’t do rather than what he does. An authentic man doesn’t try to impress a woman with external things by bragging about his car, money, house, job, etc. He doesn’t try to attract a woman with an expensive gift, or effusive compliments about her beauty or other physical characteristics.
Be authentic by interacting with a woman on a personal level like her friends do, by teasing, sharing jokes, and being playful and natural. That will set you apart from all those other jerks who only focus on telling her about her beauty. And it will pay off big time.
The final but not the least code of attraction is gentleness. Women are not attracted to men who are rude, or try to offend them. Neither are they attracted to men who are too nice or who submit to them. They are attracted to men in the middle of this continuum.
What this means is that you don’t have to be rude or mean if you want to attract a woman. You need to be nice, smile and avoid mean comments, but you don’t have to beg her to be with you or make yourself look desperate. You have to be playful and unafraid to tease her and make her laugh, or ignore her when necessary. You have to radiate the demeanor of a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady but won’t give up his personal authority for any woman. That is attractive; that makes you a man, and women like men, not wimps.
If you apply the secret code of attraction effectively, you will certainly attract hot, beautiful, intelligent and real women who know how to make a man happy.
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